Dwell in Joy Not Sorrow

 Don’t waste time hating suffering your loved ones have endured; rejoice in their deliverance.  Don’t rehearse pain that has past, dwell in the joy that is present.  Don’t fear the trials of the future, rest in the confidence of God's sculpting hand and His presence there.  

 The Lord says, "I am with you.  I am with those you love.  Be at peace, and rest."  

Scripture:  "For, lo, the winter is past, the rain is over and gone; The flowers appear on the earth; the time of the singing of birds is come, and the voice of the turtle is heard in our land" (Song of Solomon 2:11-13 KJV).

Don't Depend on Emotions

 Do the work before you, and do not depend on your emotions as a gauge for “how things really are.”  

The word "emotion" is not used in the Bible* because you are to depend on what you know to be true and act accordingly.  If you are in a situation not to your liking, it is because the Lord has placed you there.  If you have been hurt, God knows of your pain and has made provision for you.  Look for His provision and keep your eyes off the injustices you've suffered; these things are God's business and not yours. 

Scripture:  "What causes fights and quarrels among you? Don’t they come from your desires that battle within you?...Humble yourselves before the Lord, and he will lift you up" (James 4:1,10).

*NIV